Week 2 Nobody Makes It Out Alive Day 5 Believe

“This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him.

“This is the crisis we’re in: God-light streamed into the world, but men and women everywhere ran for the darkness. They went for the darkness because they were not really interested in pleasing God. Everyone who makes a practice of doing evil, addicted to denial and illusion, hates God-light and won’t come near it, fearing a painful exposure. But anyone working and living in truth and reality welcomes God-light so the work can be seen for the God-work it is.”
‭‭John‬ ‭3:16-21‬ ‭MSG‬‬

We cannot minimize God’s sacrifice of His only Son being beaten beyond recognition, carrying His cross, our cross to complete His mission (Salvation for all men, women and children) by picturing crosses with clean Jesus hanging somberly on a clean cross. If we don’t take the time to gaze into his bruised, battered and bleeding face of punishment He took for us? We miss it. We completely miss the gravity of sin and it’s consequences.

We need to experience conviction for minimizing the picture of what Jesus endured on our behalf. Yet balance that conviction with complete commitment to God and all that it entails. Not out of guilt and shame but out of overwhelming, mind blowing love from our Father in heaven. Not to just process His death, burial and resurrection but the beatings, pain and separation from His heavenly home. All for us, the sinners, fulfilled by the One without sin. It is truly the greatest love story ever told and implemented.

Lord, You are the very reason we have breath in our lungs. Hold us in Your nail scarred hands until we are convinced of the love You’ve poured on us. Amen.

“I pray that God will cause you to be strong in your spirits. God has great and valuable things in heaven to help you. I pray that God’s Spirit will help you with God’s own power. I pray that Christ will make his home in you, as you believe in him. Then you will know God’s love very well. You will be like trees that have roots which go down deep into God’s love. That will make you strong.”
‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭3:16-17‬ ‭EASY‬‬

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Battle to Believe

Lenting along

Does anyone else feel like they’re just lenting along with the believer crowd, during this time of year? Though I’ve participated for many years, I didn’t want to mimic the catholic version but rather to truly consider the next 40 days in Jesus’s shoes. I did a little research, realized that the penance motivation of the believer is nothing compared to the penance of the one who never sinned, Jesus. 

Christ fasted and prayed as he approached the cross on our behalf, because of our sin. And even if I chose to walk out these 40 days the exact same way that He did, I would never make the cut to hang on that cross and redeem all of mankind. Absolutely, profound. 

We believers can lent around with somber faces over giving up modern day conveniences all we want but at the end of the day, I’m not going to call that a sacrifice compared to Jesus’s endurance of the cross. 

I refuse to reduce the days of lenting around with fellow believers as my sacrifice to God’s redemptive plan for me. I won’t even call it gratitude for what He’s done for me. What I will do is allow the disruption to my normal routine and my full belly to remember what He did and still gave me the option to choose.

If you want to lent around with me, this is what I’m doing for the next 40 days. I’m disrupting my daily routine of coffee, read/write/study and ending my night with reading and ice cream with this: 

1. Fast all coffee, ice cream and first two meals replaced with protein drink, but keep dinner with family. No devices at the table no matter what is going on with work. 

2. Start the day with a shower and dressed for the day. (This is kind of big one though it may not seem like it, since I work from home)

3. Read the word and journal whatever comes to mind. Keeping a prayer journal for the things I’m fasting and praying for. I want to experience a move of God in my life and the people I’m praying for. 

It’s simple but a completely different routine for me. I want to wake up each day with the mentality of, “I’m ready to do Your will today, Lord. Whether it’s here in my home, or prepared to walk out the door with no notice. I want to remember that the tomb is empty, you have risen, you are alive, you are preparing a place for me, you are coming back for me.”

I would love to hear how you are spending the next 40 days?

Week 2 Nobody Makes It Out Alive Day 4 Letting go and letting God

“Jesus began to cry. The Jews said, “See how much he loved him!” But some of them said, “He healed the eyes of the man born blind. Couldn’t he have kept Lazarus from dying?””
‭‭John‬ ‭11:35-37‬ ‭CEB‬‬

Have you ever been in a situation where you have a really good secret that will surprise and bless people but you can’t share it until it’s time for the party or the reveal? That was Jesus, in the account of Lazarus’s death and Jesus raising him from the dead.

If you read all of John chapter 11, there are plenty of hints being dropped by Jesus. However, nobody, not his disciples, not Mary and Martha, not one was picking up what Jesus was throwing down.

Many scholars have their theories on why Jesus wept over Lazarus‘s tomb. My theory is this: they didn’t get it. They didn’t pick up on why he delayed the trip so that His glory would be shown to all through raising Lazarus from the dead. So Jesus wept. He wept for their unbelief. He wept for their hearts convinced that He didn’t have a plan or a purpose in this, regardless of the outcome. He wept because they couldn’t let go of these earthly mindsets to grab ahold of eternal promises. He wept because this was the precursor to His own death and resurrection. He wept because He knew that after 3 years of ministry with them, they still had many doubts to work through. He wept for their eyes to be opened to His authority over death and the grave.

The stone in front of whatever is keeping you from truly letting go of what has passed and letting God give you His eternal future has to be moved or removed before God can resurrect the life you could be living with Him by your side. Some things have to be buried for good. Some things are seeds that don’t reveal themselves until later and some things have to be called out and revived in Jesus name.

Jesus told them to remove the stone from the tomb. He did not remove the stone for them. When we are willing to let go and roll the stone away, God is ready to move on your behalf.

Lord, help us let go of the things that stand in the way of your resurrection power and let You have Your way in our lives. Help us accept what is removed, help us nurture the seeds that are planted for later, help us seize the moment of revival in us for today. Amen

“Jesus said, “ Remove the stone. ” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said, “Lord, the smell will be awful! He’s been dead four days.” Jesus replied, “ Didn’t I tell you that if you believe, you will see God’s glory? ””
‭‭John‬ ‭11:39-40‬ ‭CEB‬‬

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Letting go and letting God

Week 2 Nobody Makes It Out Alive Day 3 Trust the Process

“My Christian friends, remember to be happy, even when many kinds of trouble happen to you. Troubles can help you. God wants to see if you really trust him. Your faith in God will become stronger as a result of these troubles. So you should continue to trust God all the way to the end. Then you will grow as a believer. You will become completely how you should be. You will not need anything more.”
‭‭James‬ ‭1:2-4‬ ‭EASY‬‬

Jesus knows about trials, trouble and tests that have unexpected arrivals and outcomes. The difference between us and Jesus in these moments is that Jesus is not surprised like we are. Jesus takes our free will, the freedom of our choices and keeps working them out for our good.

For example, as we read the accounts of the days leading up to resurrection Sunday there was a lot going on behind the scenes. Jesus had a divine appointment with an excruciating process and no behind the scenes plan was going to divert his plan and purpose.

On one hand, the religious leaders were plotting to ambush Jesus and keep Him from getting more followers. The Bible says that basically Jesus diverted their plans because their plan didn’t line up with God’s divine appointment book.

On the other hand, Judas, one of the disciples, was negotiating his 30 pieces of silver to turn over Jesus to governing leaders. Jesus did not thwart this plan because this plan would be the set up for the divine appointed time for the excruciating process. Where heaven and earth would collide, where Jesus faces off our consequences from sin and defeats the grave, defeats the devil and rescues His beloved (that’s you and me) from the laws of sin.

While the excruciating process of the cross was part of Jesus’s purpose, He joyfully, knowingly walked out the process because He knows the full plans He has for us. He knows that while we, His beloved, may feel so far away from Him, or think that our captivity in our, what seem to be, impossible circumstances will never end… Our beloved Jesus has a plan and He will see it to its completion and it’s always with our best interest in mind.

Jesus has an incredible track record of following through with everything He said He would do. And though some will choose their own path, He will not stop working things out for their good. He will never stop fighting for us. As long as we have breath on this earth, there’s still a chance that He could win our heart. We need to trust the process and stop following the crowd.

Lord, help us trust the process. Help us get into your word and reveal to us not only the plan and purpose for our lives but give us wisdom and understanding to trust the divine appointment you went through to save us. Amen.

“And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭8:28‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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Trust the Process

Week 2 Nobody Makes It Out Alive Day 2 Friend or Foe

“This isn’t the neighborhood bully mocking me—I could take that. This isn’t a foreign devil spitting invective—I could tune that out. It’s you! We grew up together! You! My best friend! Those long hours of leisure as we walked arm in arm, God a third party to our conversation.”
‭‭Psalm‬ ‭55:12-14‬ ‭MSG‬‬

We have all been there, right? That sinking feeling of realizing you have been betrayed by a person or a group of people that you thought, and they said, would never hurt you. Though, the experience for each of us has different faces, names and details, we can all relate to that gut wrenching pain that comes from betrayal.

The psalm above is more relatable than I care to share the details here. But I feel it in the inner most parts of my soul each time I read it. The initial hurt, denial, anger, pain and finally acceptance that I need to move on without them. That if there were to be a reconciliation, God would have to initiate it because my wounds were cut too deep to even consider it. It does not mean I have not forgiven them. It just means that their behavior created a boundary because trust had been violated at every level.

These are tough situations that are challenging to recover from. But God can restore your broken heart over betrayal and not restore that relationship, as well as give you a heart for accepting the situation and still not let anger, hurt and resentment control you.

God is not surprised by one thing going on in the world, as a whole, or our world as an individual. He knows and he relates to us. He endured betrayal that he knew would happen. Read about the betrayal of the leaders of the synagogue, his disciples (the accounts of Peter and Judas), the government leaders. All forms of betrayal yet it was that betrayal that helped assist Jesus’s prophetic purpose. Every part of what happened pushed heaven and earth to collide so we could have eternity back in reach if we would just believe.

Jesus endured the consequences of our sin, we get to embrace the result of Jesus’s sacrifice, liberty from the consequences of sin and death. Though our human counterparts may imperfectly step through our lives there is but one that will never leave you or betray you and that is Jesus.

The passage below is so rich in wisdom of how to handle our foes, the people we trusted at one time and betrayed us another, the people that swore to never hurt us or leave us but they did. Jesus, in all of his infinite knowledge and wisdom responds perfectly. He took what foolishness they threw at him and forced them to concede to the debate that they initiated. He refused to get caught up in conversations that led away from his plan and purpose. He flipped the script. Jesus moved on without them, He answered only to His Father in heaven. He knew that God’s voice was the only voice that mattered as He prepared Himself to face the cross. In the face of death, he took back all authority over sin and death and rose from the dead. He revealed himself long enough to give us some last instructions, while He went to prepare our home with Him, announcing that He will return for us.

All the haters are gonna hate but God is the only one who can save us.

Lord I pray that we learn who God is to us, who we are to Him and why that matters. I promise you that though people may disappoint and betray you, God never will. Amen.

“One day he was teaching the people in the Temple, proclaiming the Message. The high priests, religion scholars, and leaders confronted him and demanded, “Show us your credentials. Who authorized you to speak and act like this?”

Jesus answered, “First, let me ask you a question: About the baptism of John—who authorized it, heaven or humans?”

They were on the spot, and knew it. They pulled back into a huddle and whispered, “If we say ‘heaven,’ he’ll ask us why we didn’t believe him; if we say ‘humans,’ the people will tear us limb from limb, convinced as they are that John was God’s prophet.” They agreed to concede that round to Jesus and said they didn’t know.

Jesus said, “Then neither will I answer your question.””
‭‭Luke‬ ‭20:1-8‬ ‭MSG‬‬

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Week 2 Nobody Makes It Out Alive Day 1 The Battle Inside The Temple

“They arrived at Jerusalem. Immediately on entering the Temple Jesus started throwing out everyone who had set up shop there, buying and selling. He kicked over the tables of the bankers and the stalls of the pigeon merchants. He didn’t let anyone even carry a basket through the Temple. And then he taught them, quoting this text: My house was designated a house of prayer for the nations; You’ve turned it into a hangout for thieves.”
‭‭Mark‬ ‭11:15-17‬ ‭MSG‬‬

Words like the “temple”, the “body” of Christ and the church “body”, we are the “body” are all interchangeable with the story of Jesus driving out the “thieves” in the temple. Let me explain.

The accounts of Jesus driving out the money changers and marketers from the temple in the four gospels Matthew, Mark, Luke and John were necessary to put the focus where it belonged. That focus belongs on the owner of the temple, God.

Apparently, these people and the appointed leaders over the temple had forgotten why the temple was built in the first place. Which was a dwelling place for God’s presence and prayer not a marketing opportunity for worldly profit.

As we walk through and study scripture, we soon learn that we are actually the temple of the living God because Christ’s spirit dwells in our hearts when we receive Him. Together we become the “body of Christ”. Driving out anything that compromises the focus of who we belong to is challenging but necessary to keep our focus on God’s plan and purpose for our lives, as well as the sweet fellowship available to us with Him 24/7.

The “thief” which is the devil comes to rob, kill and destroy us. He does not want us to succeed in God’s plan and purpose for our lives. Remember in week 1 when we talked about distractions? Those distractions can turn into real problems that stand between you and the doorway to God’s “temple”, His glory, His wisdom, His power, His presence and His purpose for your life. We must be proactive in order to drive out the thief of our purpose.

What “thieves” market themselves in the doorway of your “temple”? Who or what needs to be driven out so that you can get to doing and being all that God has purposed you to be?

“Or didn’t you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don’t you see that you can’t live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? The physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6:19-20‬ ‭MSG‬‬

Lord, I pray that as we address the thieves and anything marketing itself above You in our lives that we identify it, drive it out and run to You.
And now I pray this over yourself:
As long as I have breath, I have purpose. Lord, help me learn what that is and help me drive out anything from the doorstep to the inside of my temple that keeps me from You and Your presence. Amen

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The Battle Inside The Temple

Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Intro Week 2 The Battle Belongs To the Lord

1“I thank you, Lord, and with all the passion of my heart I worship you in the presence of angels! Heaven’s mighty ones will hear my voice as I sing my loving praise to you. 2 I bow down before your divine presence and bring you my deepest worship as I experience your tender love and your living truth. For your Word and the fame of your name have been magnified above all else! 3 At the very moment I called out to you, you answered me! You strengthened me deep within my soul and breathed fresh courage into me. 4 One day all the kings of the earth will rise to give you thanks when they hear the living words that I have heard you speak.” Psalm 138:1-4 MSG

It is interesting to me that Jesus’s triumphant entry into what we now know as Holy Week was in actuality to battle for our lives. While the crowds shouted, “Hosanna to the Son of David! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Hosanna in the highest!”,with their palm branches waving in the air. But we would soon learn that this king was not to sit on an earthly throne but would soon be back on his heavenly throne to prepare a place for his lost beloved. But first, He had to win a battle on our behalf. A battle for the very eternal souls he created. The ones he created for eternal fellowship and relationship with him. Jesus knew what he needed to do. He knew why he came. He knew what the next 7 days were leading to. Three days in the grave is nothing to him to save his beloved. Though he had great joy to lay down his life for all of creation, he knew this earthly body would endure a level of pain that would be unimaginable to the average person. But for God, it was necessary. It was necessary for us to see we cannot endure the pains, trials, tragedies and traumas of this world without him. We needed to see that even the grave could not hold him down. That the uncreated one who created us was the only one qualified to win this battle.

When you read the psalm above from David, know that though he never walked with Jesus himself, he worshiped God like he already witnessed the day that Jesus, the Messiah, Yeshua would defeat his enemies. Oh, to have gratitude like that before it happens. Imagine the battles we would move out of the way of and watch our Jesus conquer them. Imagine trusting God like that before those prophecies of the Messiah were fulfilled. I want that kind of gratitude, don’t you?

When things are not looking so good. When you don’t know what to do or pray or say. That is when we gaze into the eyes of Jesus entering his battle on our behalf to a crowd that appeared to love him at first, but by the end of the week would go from shouting, “Hosannah in the highest!” waving their palm branches, yet in just a blink of an eye, shaking their fists at him, screaming, “Crucify him!”.

We still do that to him today. When things are going well, we praise him, when things do not go our way, we curse and blame him for the devil’s work. Yet, Jesus battles on for us, despite us.

Lord I pray we trust him in the battle, that we praise him through the battle and that we trust him with more battles. More important than that is that we accept the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ.

“5 They too will sing of your wonderful ways, for your ineffable glory is great! 6 For though you are lofty and exalted, you stoop to embrace the lowly. Yet you keep your distance from those filled with pride. 7 By your mighty power I can walk through any devastation, and you will keep me alive, reviving me. Your power set me free from the hatred of my enemies. 8 You keep every promise you’ve ever made to me! Since your love for me is constant and endless, I ask you, Lord, to finish every good thing that you’ve begun in me!”— ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭138:5-8‬ ‭TPT

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Nobody Makes It Out Alive Week 1 Day 7 Don’t get it twisted

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us.” Hebrews 12:1

Let’s not get this part twisted. We need to know who the most important person that we run this race with is, that is God. God is the initiator of our race. He flagged us down and said, this way is the winner’s circle, follow me. Not in those words specifically but He did this through our personal relationship with him, called “Salvation”. When sin entered the world through Adam and Eve God provided a plan to save us from ourselves. That plan of redemption would be through His only son, Jesus.

The part that many people have gotten twisted is that Jesus was murdered, that His life was taken but that’s not the truth. The truth is that Jesus laid his life down intentionally to fulfill the redemptive plan, from God, for all of us. He was the sinless one that endured the pain and agony for the sinner. He took our punishment so that we might say yes to the Salvation plan. He laid His life down so that we would have the freedom to choose Him. Though Jesus made this great sacrifice, He still does not guilt or condemn us into choosing Him. Though in my human nature I’m like ,”You did all of this, Jesus, it would seem like you earned the right to tell us we should follow you. But you gave us Your word that we would always be able to choose for ourselves.”

Think about the fact that Jesus was 100% God and disrupted His royal position to endure a cross that he committed no crime, no sin, no wrong doing to be 100% human for a season. Just to give us an opportunity to say yes to this great love He has for His creation, YOU and ME! He did this, knowing that some would refuse or reject Him and His gift of Salvation. He did it “because of the joy awaiting him” (Hebrews 12:2b). I personally cannot wrap my head around that kind of love. A love that loves whether it gets a return on its investment or not.

“We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy. awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne.” Hebrews 12: 2 NLT

Dear Lord, let us not get it twisted what YOU DID FOR US and think that it was something done TO you. You went to the cross for us. You gave us an individual invitation to full access to you. I pray that we choose you because of what you’ve done and who you are. That we see and experience the joy you went to the cross with for the sake of our eternal destination. Amen. #jointhejourney #k4gsus #devotional #khoward #nobodymakesitoutalive #seizetheday #dontgetittwisted #author #writer #beautifullybroken

Don’t get it twisted

Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Week 1 Day 6 Distractions- Our “little problem”

“With promises like this to pull us on, dear friends, let’s make a clean break with everything that defiles or distracts us, both within and without. Let’s make our entire lives fit and holy temples for the worship of God.” 2 Corinthians 7:1 (MSG)

Our “little problem” are those things in our life that “defiles” or “distracts” us, “both within and without” according to 2 Corinthians 7:1 (MSG). If we continue doing “these things” we will stunt our spiritual growth, we block our ability to fully embrace God’s love and eventually we will be found out. At some point, we need to face the things in our life that gotta go if we’re gonna grow. I’m speaking of our “little problem” called sin. It’s anything in our daily comings and goings that include lust, excessive food or drink, greed, laziness, wrath, envy or pride. These things lead to self-destruction, unhealthy relationships with others and separation from God’s plan and purpose for your life.

The only way to truly deal with the sin in our lives is to first admit and face them, believe that God forgives you for them and commit your life to God’s plan and purpose for your life, To maintain a life of avoiding sin is accountability to God. This is most successful with a trusted person of faith and snuggling up to God’s promises and truths for your life. God’s presence is the antidote to our sinful nature. I am not saying this is easy. I am saying that God is available if you let Him help you walk away from the sin in your life.

I don’t know what you struggle with, but I know that I have witnessed God removing desires that were not good for me because I turned to Him for help. It’s in His presence that I find my strength to say no when I need to say no. It’s in His word that I find the truth and the promise that crushes the lies in my life. It’s when I lift my hands in praise and worship that I am admitting I can’t do this life in my own strength. It’s in the moment of complete surrender on my knees in prayer that He floods me with His love. God’s end of the relationship never changes. He loves me, He loves you, He is for us not against us!

“The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised Christ Jesus from the dead, he will give life to your mortal bodies by this same Spirit living within you. Therefore, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation to do what your sinful nature urges you to do.” Romans 8:11-12 (NLT)

Dear Lord, I come to you in those times of struggling to do the right thing. I trust that your loving hand is guiding me straight to your arms. Wrap me in your love. Give me wisdom, courage and empower me to walk away from the temptations of sin. I have no obligation to the sin in my life. I lay that thing down at your feet lord. I don’t want it and I don’t need it in my life. Whatever void that thing leaves behind let it be replaced by more of you in my life Lord. Amen

Distractions – Our “little problem”

Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Week 1 Day 5 Distractions-Addictions

“Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8

Let’s start with the definition of addiction: Addiction is when the body or mind badly wants or needs something in order to work right. When you have addiction to something it is called being addicted or being an addict. People can be addicted to drugs, cigarettes, alcohol, caffeine, and many other things. (according to Addiction – Simple English Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia )

This is my philosophy on addictions. I do not have any degrees or even an addictive personality. However, I have watched the lives that once were thriving persons in life, slowly lose hope in each passing moment that they give into their addictions. Whether it is drugs, pornography, food, relationships, vanity or fill in the blank_______. They all had a common denominator from my side of their addiction. A hole that was left through loss, trauma or self-hate. Instead of allowing God to repair the hole they let it fill up with their addiction of choice trying to hide or mask their pain but no matter how many times they turned to their addiction they ended up more empty than before.

I have also observed people that have that same addictive personality look to God for repair. They turn away from their addiction of choice and choose time with God, they choose support from people with similar addictions. They choose to fight for their break away from their addictive behavior. It is a daily choice. They seize the day in such a way that it inspires me to do better. I am in no way minimizing the mental battle that the addict faces on the daily, I am saying that people that do not lean on their own strength to conquer their addictions win that day. And eventually they get some consecutive days that turn into months and years of success.

If you are struggling with an addiction there is help for you. You do not have to struggle alone. Celebrate Recovery (google it, there are support groups everywhere) is a faith-based organization that meets the addict, right where they are, regardless of what the struggle is. A support group gives you support, tools and accountability to turn that addiction over to God and let Him heal you. Don’t try to fix everything at once, just focus on winning the day in front of you. You got this.

“Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.” 1 Peter 5:6

“We all experience times of testing, which is normal for every human being. But God will be faithful to you. He will screen and filter the severity, nature and timing of every test or trial you face so that you can bear it. And each test is an opportunity to trust Him more, for along every trial God has provided for you a way of escape that will bring you out of it victoriously.” 1 Corinthians 10:13

Lord, I pray for the addicted reading this today. I pray that they would have a supernatural encounter with You, Lord, that they would let you help them win the day in front of them. With each day you bless them with breath, I pray that they use that breath for the passion and purpose that you designed them for. Light the fire of purpose inside of them so that they can face their addictions with courage, confidence and conquer it once and for all. It’s never too late to quit quitting. Amen.

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Distractions-Addiction

Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Week 1 Day 4 Distractions-these smart phones though

So, if you’re serious about living this new resurrection life with Christ, act like it. Pursue the things over which Christ presides. Don’t shuffle along, eyes to the ground, absorbed with the things right in front of you. Look up and be alert to what is going on around Christ—that’s where the action is. See things from his perspective. Colossians 3:1-2 MSG

Read those verses again. Then look up and ask God to show you how to use your smart phone to get closer to Him, closer to the people that need you, especially the ones within arm’s reach. Set some boundaries for your screen time of any kind. Stop hiding behind your smart phone in some sort of fantasy world of friends, likes, comments and snapshots of people’s lives that you hardly know.

If we understand that God is a god of relationship and not religion and rituals then why not build relationships, face to face relationships. Set up no-phone-zones and learn how each other’s day went and who they are interacting with. Go outside without your smart phone and find a beautiful view of the sky, a horizon with a body of water and sunrise or sunset as a backdrop. Schedule alone time with your significant other, or your kids, or an elderly family member. Make a handwritten list of all the things you’ve read on your smart phone about doing and start doing those things that you long to do. Go to an event without your smartphone or taking pics to post on social media and just embrace the moment and engage in it. Track your screen time on your devices and exchange your screen time for “real” time activities.

I am simply suggesting that we get some balance and start living our life with our eyes on our purpose and passions. If we are to learn how to cease the day, we will not accomplish this by staring at our phone screens 4.5 hrs a day. (this is the national average according to: https://blog.rescuetime.com/screen-time-stats-2018/) So the next time you tell yourself that you don’t have time to read your bible or pray ,check your screen time hours and see if you can make time.

“Your old life is dead. Your new life, which is your real life—even though invisible to spectators—is with Christ in God. He is your life. When Christ (your real life, remember) shows up again on this earth, you’ll show up, too—the real you, the glorious you. Meanwhile, be content with obscurity, like Christ.” Colossians 3:3-4 MSG

Lord this is a challenge for most people as we have replaced fellowship with a level of disconnect that is creating little islands of lonely people floating through life in relationships without substance. Lord help us find that balance so we can live our lives with our eyes on You and the things that represent You. Help us not get absorbed in time wasters and help us clock back into our purpose and our passions. Amen. #jointhejourney #devotional #beautifullybroken #khoward #k4gsus #writer #journey #author #seizetheday #nobodymakesitoutalive

Distractions-These smartphones though

Nobody Makes It Out Alive Week 1 Day 3 Nevertheless

“So, I kneel humbly in awe before the Father of our Lord Jesus, the Messiah, the perfect Father of every father and child in heaven and on the earth. And I pray that he would unveil within you the unlimited riches of his glory and favor until supernatural strength floods your innermost being with his divine might and explosive power. Then by constantly using your faith, the life of Christ will be released deep inside of you, and the resting place of love will become the very source and root of your life” Ephesians 3:14-17 TPT

Life can be so hard sometimes, right? Facing loss of loved ones, unexpected or not, leaves a hole where that person once sat in your life. Nevertheless, we that are still here facing these days ahead are left to move forward without them. I pray for those that are facing that kind of loss today. There are no words that bring comfort to the ones left behind to pick up the pieces, but we can cry with them, hold them, pray for them and listen to them but, please, don’t ignore them, because you don’t know what to do. In that moment, it’s not about what makes you uncomfortable it’s about bringing comfort with or without words.

I am speaking to believers in Christ that get the air knocked out of your guts by a curve ball in life. We need to remember that when we are weak, nevertheless, He is strong. We don’t have to be strong all the time. Sometimes we just need to let His strength carry us on through those hard moments of loss, disappointment, discouragement and the unexpected.

I am speaking to the unbeliever or undecided about who God is. Regardless of what you believe doesn’t make God disappear or not love you. Nevertheless, you can reject Him but He will never reject you. It’s a love like no other you have ever experienced. He would love the opportunity to intervene on your behalf. But He is a gentleman and is waiting for you to choose Him because He already chose you.

“Never doubt God’s mighty power to work in you and accomplish all this. He will achieve infinitely more than your greatest request, your most unbelievable dream, and exceed your wildest imagination! He will outdo them all, for his miraculous power constantly energizes you.” Ephesians 3:20 TPT

I am personally praying these verses over every person reading this: “Then you will be empowered to discover what every holy one experiences—the great magnitude of the astonishing love of Christ in all its dimensions. How deeply intimate and far-reaching is his love! How enduring and inclusive it is! Endless love beyond measurement that transcends our understanding—this extravagant love pours into you until you are filled to overflowing with the fullness of God!” Ephesians 3:18-19 TPT #jointhejourney #devotional #beautifullybroken #khoward #k4gsus #writer #journey #author #seizetheday #nobodymakesitoutalive

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Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Week 1 Day 2 Face the Grave

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”
Proverbs 16:9 NIV

I am a planner. Anyone that knows me knows that if you want to make me uncomfortable just put me in a position where we must “wing it”. I can literally feel myself twitching thinking about those situations. The reality that I have come to be more and more aware of as I mature is, I can plan as much as I want but like the book of wisdom (Proverbs), in the bible states it so well,

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”Proverbs 16:9 NIV.

Though it still makes me uncomfortable I have learned that God knows my best path and I give Him permission to intervene as He sees fit when my plans need to be diverted.

I entitled today’s devotional, Face the Grave. I did not choose this to be morbid but to be realistic. We all have an expiration date. It is inevitable that we will face the grave someday. What if we chose to live a life that was so prepared for heaven that heaven touched us every day just to cheer us on until we get there? What if I told you that this is possible beginning right now, in this moment?

Every time we choose to take our focus off the problems and temporary things of this world and focus on the eternal things that God offers us, we are free. Free to accept things as they come whether they are part of our original plans or not. Free to appreciate what we have in this moment whether it is exactly what we hoped for or diverted to a whole new direction.

My experience was, that I thought I would live in paradise here while I awaited paradise in heaven. Instead I lost all of it to someone else’s choices. I spent 3 years in shock, healing and rebuilding. What I learned is that the paradise I had was temporary regardless, but heaven, the eternal paradise, didn’t move away from me. Heaven and its heavenly host embraced me until I was strong enough to stand again. I will still face the grave one day no matter where I live, what material things I have or lose doesn’t change that. I am learning what contentment in the moments of lack really means. I have faced the grave by being present in my moments as they come rather than sulking about the past or hoping for a future that looks like the past. Lord knows that I don’t want a repeat of all of that.

“Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have.” Philippians 4:11 NLT

Dear Lord, help us face the grave with courage, joy and acceptance because of who You are, who we are to You and what You’ve done for us, not on what we try to control. Forgive us Lord for taking the gift of time for granted. Let us value our time. Let us be content in what we have in our present moments. Not that we stop dreaming but that we dream with You in mind. Amen #jointhejourney #devotional #beautifullybroken #khoward #k4gsus #writer #journey #author #seizetheday

Face the Grave

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Nobody Makes It Out Alive: Week 1 Day 1 Trust the journey

The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is His faithfulness; His mercies begin afresh each morning. I say to myself, “The Lord is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in Him.” Lamentations 3:22-24 (NLT)

I am not going to pretend like I have this all figured out. We are going to embark on this training to “seize the day” together. The reality is that none of us make it out of this season called life alive. We all have an entrance date, birth, and an exit date, death. Not one of us knows exactly what the timeframe is but each of us have the moment in front of us, if there is still breath in our lungs. So why don’t we cease that moment as if it were our last breath?

There is a list of distractions that keep us from doing so. I hope that at the end of our journey together we learn from them, remove them or at least minimize them until our moments really matter. If we were to be honest, those precious moments are what we can be most assured of because not one of us is promised tomorrow.

We also will be constantly holding these moments up against eternity. Eternal mindedness frees us from the painful moments of this journey. The moments of disappointment, loss, hurt, pain, injury, sickness, disease and fears. Death and loss reminding us of how temporary this life is. We are a mere blip on the timeline of the temporary things of this world.

When God created time, it in no way disrupted eternity. When God created us, He created us out of complete love and faithfulness to you and to me. He doesn’t make mistakes. You were meant to be here. The proof is in the breath you breathe. Let us not take that for granted regardless of the painful parts of our journey. Not one part of it is wasted. We can learn from it. With our eyes on eternity and the promises of God we have hope for our future.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord, “They are plans for good and not disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me.” Jeremiah 29:11-13 (NLT)

Lord, help us root out the distractions we struggle with that keep us from the moments that really matter. Let us learn them and let them go. Help us exchange the temporary things that steal our moments away for the eternal things like truth, faithfulness, peace, mercy, hope and love that enrich our moments. Amen.#jointhejourney #devotional #beautifullybroken #khoward #k4gsus #writer #journey #author #seizetheday

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